Long gone are the good old days of rom-coms when a prostitute would have a heart of gold (a la Pretty Woman), nowadays, we no longer want to see perfect people fawning all over each other. We want something real. Something relatable. Right? Cue "Don Jon," Joseph Gordon Levitt's directorial debut about a guy who watches too much porn. Yes, seriously. This anti-rom-com is not only for chicks to see, but guys too! My boyfriend even went to see it with me … and liked it. A lot. People are always talking about how Lena Dunham and "Girls" is like nothing we've ever seen, and how it's the most honest piece of work about this generation, blah, blah, blah. And don't get me wrong, it's great, but what about "Don Jon?" In the film, Joseph Gordon Levitt's character says things like, “Every guy. Watches porn. Every day.” I'm sorry girls, but this is true. It's like, who doesn't masturbate? We've all done it, but nobody talks about it. The movie gets better. Every single night, he goes out to the club with his friends, looking for one night stands because they're afraid to fall in love. And then when they do, and it doesn't work out because most of the time it never does, their afraid to tell their parents because, oh god, they're just going to be so annoying about it!

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Sound familiar? Exactly. Now don't get me wrong. I'm a chick, and I love watching movies like "Dirty Dancing," Pretty Woman" and "When Harry Met Sally." But I like it even more when rom-coms are cliché free and the real deal. I mean, would Harry have met Sally in 2013? Probably not. Would 'baby' be standing in the corner in this day and age? Definitely. And would a prostitute have had a heart of gold? Nope, but she probably would have gotten an STD or two.

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So, why is it so hard? Well, That Awkward moment sheds some light on the reason why. In the movie, Zac Eron, Milles Teller and Michael B. Jordan make a vow that they remain single in order to go out every weekend, hook up and just have fun. But when you look like Zac, Miles or Michael, well, let's just say it's pretty hard to remain single for more than five minutes. The guys end up meeting girls that they develop feelings for, some of them even commit, but when their guy friends find out about it, they pretend as if they're not in a relationship, even though they really are. And when Zac Efron's love interest needs him the most, guess what, he isn't there for her and ignores her text messages. While the movie isn't an Oscar worthy film by any means, it was real. It's what twentysomethings this day and age go through time and time again. Whether you're a girl or a guy, we've all been there. Ladies, I suggest you go out and see this film with your girlfriends. And guys, I suggest you go see it as well. Preferably with your girlfriends, otherwise it might actually get kind of awkward.

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If there's one thing I've learned about turning 30, it's that everybody expects you to be married, and if you're not, well then there's something definitely wrong with you. Even if you have a boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and the one question that everybody (I mean, everybody) asks is… Is he the one? Are you going to get married? What do you mean you're not getting married? Why not? I apologize if this offends anybody, but a year and a half isn't exactly a long enough time to be wit someone and say, "Hey, we should get married!" I know, I know. Some people are with their significant others after six months and then tie the knot. But you know where those people probably are now? Divorced. It's like Aziz Ansari said on his comedy special, "Buried Alive" -- "I’ve had sweaters for two years and been like, ‘What the fuck was I doing with this sweater? It’s so stupid looking. I can’t believe I thought about living with this sweater for the rest of my life.’” So kids, before you lock that shit down, make sure that you can definitely see yourself with that sweater boyfriend/ girlfriend for the rest of your life.

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That awkward moment when you're in a relationship of some sorts with a guy, and you're not sure whether you're dating or just hooking up. This leads to the same question that girls everywhere ask their, err, guy they are hanging out with... "So, what are we?" In the movie, "That Awkward Moment," Zac Efron calls it the so. We've all been there. Done that. You really like a guy. You've been hanging out for a few weeks, maybe even a few months. But he's never asked you to be his girlfriend, yet you continuously hang out a few times a week. You sleep over his house all the time. You have your own toothbrush in his bathroom. You've met his friends. Possibly even his parents. Yet he just can't commit.

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